Confronting conflicts with parents

Humans choose their parents when they are born. Whether those parents are ideal for you now or not is something that is difficult to state clearly.

However, at the very least, the fact of who your parents are is something you have decided for yourself when you were born.

If those parents do not seem wonderful from your perspective, you must have surely been born with the goal of becoming a person greater than your parents.

If your parents are wonderful people, you must have been born with the determination to live this life as a model of those wonderful parents.

(From 'The Age of Religious Choice' open_in_new)

There are increasing numbers of children growing up with worries in their hearts due to various issues, including child abuse.

When such children become adults, in most cases, they carry those burdens with them. Therefore, those who grew up in families with poor parenting often find themselves struggling with parenting when they have their own families.

For such children to succeed in the future, it is better to adopt a mindset opposite to what was mentioned earlier. If you thought in childhood, 'What terrible parents they are,' the resolution you should make is just one point: 'I will not become such a parent.' By thinking, 'I will not become such an adult. I will not become like this when I grow up. I will become the opposite of this,' you will gradually become that way.

In society, many people repeat their childhood experiences again after becoming adults, so it is important for those who have many negative experiences in childhood not to carry them throughout their lives. You must strive to become the opposite.

Children who saw many of the bad and wrong aspects of adults when they were small should conversely aim to grow up thinking, 'I will not become like this.'

(From 'The Law of Happiness' open_in_new)

Childhood may be tough, but eventually, you will become an adult. When you become an adult, it is possible for you to build a separate family.

(From 'The Law of Life' open_in_new)

You are not the only one who knows about your life. You must not forget that your life is watched over by many angels.

They are in the heavenly realm, always watching over each of your lives on earth. And when you are sad, they also feel sadness, and when you are happy, they also feel happiness.

I hope you never forget that there are beings who walk with you and live with you at all times. Sometimes, angels may carry you and walk the path.

You may believe only in what is visible and not in what is invisible. However, I want you to know how much love is hidden in the invisible.

When you realize that the unseen neighbors are watching over you day and night, and that they shed tears with you when you are sad, how much your loneliness will be healed.

(From 'From Love to Prayer' open_in_new)

From the past broadcasts of the popular radio program 'Angel's Morning Call' open_in_new (national network + Hawaii KZOO), I will introduce programs that I want you to listen to now. (You can listen to it in audio)

(1) 'Hang in there! Mom' open_in_new [Episode 963]
(2) Guidance for the heart 'Don't push too hard' open_in_new [Episode 984]
(3) Guidance for the heart 'Don't seek gratitude' open_in_new [Episode 992]
(4) 'How to interact with tired dads' open_in_new [Episode 1038]
(5) 'The feelings that dwell in parent and child' open_in_new [Episode 1285]
(6) Best Selection (Family Edition) open_in_new
(7) Guidance for the heart 'Reversal of parent and child' open_in_new [Episode 1409]