How can I have a happy romantic relationship? 【True Stories from the Spiritual World】

There are 'heavenly romances' and 'hellish romances' in love, which can be broadly divided into whether they lead to happiness or unhappiness. The checkpoints are simple. Is that romance constructive, enhancing the personalities of both partners and opening up their futures? Or does it have the nature of leading to degradation or life setbacks? The relationship between lovers has a significant impact on both oneself and the other person. It is important to have a calm judgment on whether we are having a 'good romance'.

In the Science of Happiness, it is taught that there are 'giving love' and 'taking love', so please examine whether you have a pure intention of 'making the other person happy' or whether you think, 'I want to take as much as I can from the other person and receive as much as possible.' Are you not thinking that you want to thoroughly take from the other person for your own satisfaction and pleasure?

Also, as a checkpoint in love, it is a turning point whether you can think, 'How would an adult with more knowledge and experience than me think? How would someone slightly older than me think?'

Furthermore, it is necessary to have a discerning eye to see 'what happens when my pattern collides with the other person's pattern. Is the other person's pattern one that makes me happy or one that makes me unhappy?'

'Love is blind', so for those in the midst of it, there are aspects that they cannot understand no matter what is said, but still, if you have a standard for inspection and check it from time to time, there may come a turning point where you can make a good judgment. And in most cases, a conclusion will emerge at least a few years later.

Love is a total war of the whole personality. 'Who are you attracted to? Who do you connect with?' is testing 'what kind of person you are.'

In a word, the advice for a heavenly romance is to 'choose a partner who thinks about each other's future and can enhance each other.' If you choose a partner who enhances each other, your relationship will surely last a long time.

If you think, 'We are heading in a direction that will corrupt or ruin each other,' a certain kind of decisiveness is necessary. Even if you like the other person, if you think, 'At this rate, we will both be ruined', 'I will ruin the other person', 'My future career will not be established', 'The time has not yet come', I think it is necessary to have the decisiveness to give up and withdraw, or to pray for the other person's happiness so that you can meet someone better.

There are many instances of falling in love, but usually, over time, you forget the other person's name and appearance. Among them, those who remain in memory without being forgotten are indeed those with some kind of spiritual connection. Let's have a romance that sparkles with spiritual elements.