To nurture children's individuality 【Consultation】 <ハピママしあわせ相談室Vol.7>

Let's celebrate, "I'm happy with any individuality"

First of all, when discovering individuality, if the mother has the mindset of wanting to accept her child's individuality as it is, and thinks, "I'm happy with any individuality," then the child can start a wonderful life.

For example, if you have a child who is focused on reading picture books, you might think, "This child might be bad at sports. It could be a problem when they grow up, so I should train them early," and enroll them in a sports club.

However, for that child, it may be something they have no interest in or are not good at. If you think you need to fill that gap early, it inevitably leads to negative education.

When denied, children tend to suppress their individuality

When children receive negative education, it is painful for them. They start to hide their individuality, thinking they are not being recognized. To be acknowledged by their beloved mother,From the moment they think, "I cannot be accepted with this individuality," children begin to suppress their individuality.

That is unfortunate for the child's long life. Therefore, first of all, please think about discovering their strengths. That is the mother's first mission.

Children's talents are hidden within their interests

First, until about one and a half years old, it is important to celebrate each of the child's daily behaviors, such as, "My child is like this" or "They enjoy this."

Children's interests and concerns hide their talents. Their strengths are also hidden. Therefore, engage in conversations that align with the child's interests and let them express what they love, and when they say, "Mom, look!" celebrate with them. This way, your child will increasingly express their individuality and strengths.

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